Love is a complicated emotion, and it’s even harder to understand when you aren’t sure if someone feels it for you. Stay on the page to know more about Signs Someone Is Secretly In Love With You.
Signs Someone Is Secretly In Love With You
But, if you are looking for little signs that someone thinks of you as more than just friends, then we have a few things you should look out for.
5 Signs Someone Is Secretly In Love With You.
Did you know that men and women have very different body language when they are around someone they love?
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Now, let’s take a look at some of the signs someone is secretly in love with you.
5 Signs Someone Is Secretly In Love With You.
#1 – They Show Up
There is a good way to figure out if someone likes you or not, but you have to pay attention. Are they always around, or reaching out to you through social media or texting? When someone has a crush, they can’t help but think about the person they are crushing on.
That means they are going to try to be around them any chance they get. Don’t be surprised if this person finds out you like running and suddenly takes up running themselves. This is just a way for them to get close to you.
Another way they show up is by doing something they told you they were going to do. Like when a guy secretly loves a girl, he may promise to call her at 8:00. There is no chance he is going to miss that phone call. In fact, he’s probably hanging around his phone at 7:50 preparing what he is going to talk about.
So, pay attention to who is always around, because if there is a guy or girl who is feeling you, they are going to try to be in contact with you as much as possible. They don’t want to take the chance of someone else stealing your attention, so they want to have it all times!
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#2 – They Get Your Attention
Speaking of wanting your attention at all times when someone has a crush on you, they are going to do whatever they can to make sure your eyes are on them. Men do so by teasing you or being playful. Or, they may do things that will make you laugh.
Guys know the way to a woman’s heart is to have a good sense of humor. So ladies, don’t be surprised if a guy suddenly jumps into conversations trying to crack jokes, he just wants you to think he’s the funniest guy in the room.
On the other hand, girls also have a few ways they try to steal the attention of their crushes. If you notice a girl starting to dress to the nines for random occasions, there is a good chance she is crushing on you. Say you are headed to a school basketball game.
Instead of the usual jeans and t-shirt, she shows up in a cute dress and flats and a full face of makeup. Unless you are used to seeing her like this at all times, she is probably trying to grab the attention of someone she likes.
Girls will also do something as dramatic as pretending to be clumsy. They may bump into you, or even spill something on you to get your attention. They just want you to know they are there, plus, they are hoping you will be their knight in shining armor and help them out.
#3 – Eye Contact
It doesn’t matter if it’s a man or a woman who is falling for you, they could be giving themselves away every time they look at you. Do you ever notice their eyes are always on you? Like you are the only person in the room and no one else matters.
If that’s the case, it’s safe to say they have it bad! Or, they could be keeping lingering eye contact with you. This is because people who keep prolonged eye contact with someone else have increased feelings of love and affection with that person.
You can even spot the way their pupils move as an indicator that they secretly love you. If someone is crushing on you, their pupils will dilate, because they like what they see. And, if you find yourself gazing back into their eyes, there is a good chance you may start feeling a deeper connection than just friendship.
If that is the case, their little plan is working on you. They want you to realize that they see you as more than a friend that is the whole reason they are staring longingly into your eyes in the first place. Double points if he brushes your hair behind your ear while looking deep into your eyes! That mean she really wants you to know he likes you.
On the other hand, if you are uncomfortable with all the eye contact and attention, you may want to let them know it’s freaking you out.
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#4 – The Way They Talk
Not only should you pay attention if a crush is always reaching out to you, but you should also pay attention to what they say. When someone likes you, they want to get to know you.
Many times, when guys are in love with a girl, they will ask them many questions as possible. If they think there is a lull in the convo, they will continue to question you until a meaningful conversation ensues. They will do the same thing though text messages, as well.
If they feel like you are trying to end the conversation, they will keep asking you questions so that you stick around. Plus, they just love learning what your likes and dislikes are because they are keeping mental tabs. Now, when a girl likes a guy, she will start talking different around them as well.
Instead of asking questions, girls will compliment the guys they like. Or if they are talking, the girl will find a way to get close to them and touch their arm. They could also start picking on the guy and try to make him laugh. Don’t be surprised if she gives you a little punch on the arm. This is just her way of telling you she’s really digging you.
#5 – Body Language
If all else fails, the best way to know if someone is secretly in love with you is to pay attention to their body language. They may be giving away clues without even knowing it.
If a guy likes a girl, and they are enjoying the conversation, he is going to lean in while he is talking. And, if he is walking with a girl, he may put his hand on the small of her back to let her know he is there. This is intimate place to touch someone, so a guy wouldn’t do it for any reason.
If it’s a girl who is crushing on a guy, she may do little things like touching him on the chest, hand, or shoulders. Girls also have the tendency to play with their hair when they are talking to someone they love.
So, make sure to see if she is twirling her hair around her finger when you’re around, she could be giving herself away. Something that both sexes do is point their feel at the person they are crushing. It doesn’t matter where their gaze may be, if someone’s feet are pointed towards you that are a sign they have feelings for you.
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